We’re pleased to offer another first for East Lawn, the Urn Ark. Our Urn Ark can be easily carried by 2 to 4 pallbearers and is a dignified and beautiful presentation of any type of cremation urn. Crafted of solid cherry hardwood, the Urn Ark is graceful and appropriate for any cremation service.
Lisa West, Community Outreach Director
Have you ever been somewhere when a cell phone went off and disturbed everyone in the room? Well, imagine if that happened in a funeral service. Actually, it happens more often than you might think. Asking people to turn off their cell phones before a funeral service doesn’t always work either. Whenever possible, funeral staff will remind people to silence their phone before entering the service. But some people are actually offended that you had to remind them. It seems there are not as many sacred places as their used to be in the world, but consider a funeral service one of those places and be sure to silence your cell phone. You will never be embarrassed that it went off at exactly the wrong moment, and it is one more way to honor the deceased and their grieving family.
Lisa West, Community Outreach Directo
Cremations are happening with such frequency, it’s hard to keep up with all the new products and services available. Did you know that you can have human cremated remains compressed into a diamond? You can have them sanitized and made into tattoo ink. You can even have them shot into space.
Often families choose to take the cremated remains home in a decorative urn and display them on the mantel or scatter them in a person’s favorite place. If you choose to take the urn home for a period of time before deciding on a final resting place, keep one thing in mind. Who will be the responsible person to care for those cremated remains?
For example, if you take the cremated remains of your husband or wife home until you pass away – where will the two of you end up 10, 25 or 50 years later? Will those cremated remains be passed around the family?
A simple solution is to make a pre-arrangement for the final placement of your cremated remains into a cemetery granite or glass niche or cremation urn garden. There are many options available such as the glass niche shown below.
Lisa West, Community Outreach Director
If you haven’t already heard, cremation is trending up. According to reports from CANA (Cremation Association of North America) in California cremation is more than 55%. In Sacramento County it is reportedly as high as 72%.
The reasons people are choosing cremation vary from person to person. What’s most important to know is that cremation services are not all alike. You have the cremation societies or cremation store fronts that advertise cremations as low as $699. And at a funeral home you may be quoted anywhere from $1,500 to $3,500.
Why such a difference? In Sacramento County there are only a handful of crematories (about 14)….to handle a huge volume of cremations. Most are warehouse facilities that do cremations for many different funeral homes. And when they are busy, they often ship the deceased to another city to do the cremation.
However, if you use a firm such as East Lawn, we own our own crematory and it is strictly for use by our families (we do not loan it out). This ensures the chain of custody of your loved one is maintained because they never leave our care. Just one of many things to think about if you are considering cremation for yourself or a loved one.
Community Outreach Director
I’m probably the biggest procrastinator on the planet. But I actually hate putting things off, so I’ve given myself a new challenge in the new year to do all the things I don’t like to do BEFORE I allow myself to do all the things I really want and like to do. We’ll see how it goes. I’m optimistic!
When I go out into the community I hear many people say, “I’m too young to plan my final arrangements” or “I’ll get to it some day.” Trust me when I tell you that it’s one of the most important tasks out there and should be on the top of your priority list. The main reason I say that is because it is so much easier than people think it will be. Yes, big decisions require some thought – but after that, sitting down and getting it done is a breeze. And, we’re here to help. We have more than 30 Free Luncheon Seminars titled “The Privilege of Planning” coming up in 2017. Go to our calendar page on the website and sign up for one today. You’ll be glad you stopped putting this off!
On 11/14/2016 K9 Officer Bodie was interred at Sierra Hills Pet Cemetery following his death from an infection. Bodie was the 51st K9 Officer to be buried at East Lawn’s pet cemetery. His service was well attended by both law enforcement and the community.
Although Bodie’s obituary is too long to print here, we want to give you a few highlights of his life and his connection with the Sacramento community. K9 Officer Bodie was born in Bergen Germany on 3/27/2008 and he came to the USA in 2010 to be partners with Sacramento Police Department Officer Randy Van Dusen. He made a name for himself on the streets as a hardworking police dog and loving family pet.
On 5/18/2012, K9 Officer Bodie was shot in the face and immediately rushed to VCA Veterinary Referral Center where they saved his life – after he had just saved the life of his partner. Although he would never return to active duty as a police K9, he lived an amazing life as a police ambassador within the community. He visited school children and received numerous awards and went on to sire puppies – one of which now serves as a K9 Officer with the Citrus Heights Police Dept.
K9 Officer Bodie was a fierce protector and will live on forever in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
Courtesy of: Sgt. Randy Van Dusen
As the cremation rate is on a steady rise, many people have questions about scattering the cremated remains of their loved one. First, the picture below – that’s illegal. So the first thing you want to do is find out what the rules are. For scattering in the ocean, you are supposed to be several miles offshore. Did you know a permit is required? Your county must issue you a permit so they have a record of what happened to the cremated remains of your loved one. While scattering can be a meaningful choice for many, here are some things we have learned from the families we have served. Consider the fact that scattering is irreversible and the land where you scatter can have it’s usage changed in the future (in other words, something could be built there that you don’t like and you may no longer enjoy visiting your loved one in that place). Others who scatter in the ocean for example, later regret the decision because they now have no significant place to visit on special holidays like birthdays and Christmas. Think it through, then examine all the options available before committing to scattering.
Although Veterans Day has just passed, I wanted to take a moment to thank all veterans out there for their service to this great country. And I wanted to be sure you (veterans) knew you were entitled to a free burial in one of many national cemeteries across the nation. Be sure to check you eligibility by finding your DD-214 and contacting us (or any funeral home) for all the details. Coming in 2017 will be several Veterans Only Free Luncheon Seminars you can attend to find out more about your burial options and what the VA does and does not pay for. Our first one is coming up on Thursday, February 16 at our East Lawn Sierra Hills Memorial Park location at 5757 Greenback Lane. Go onto our website and scroll down to the calendar page and you can give us your RSVP right there. And, thank you again!
Recently, Dr. Jerry L. Cook, PhD and CSUS Professor graciously agreed to give a lecture series at East Lawn using topics from his book, I Survived: Now What?
From the book, Dr. Cook writes, “Loss” is more of an experience than an event. If you have experienced a loss in your life, you know that the aftershocks of a traumatic event can be as devastating as the event itself. Whether we experience the loss of health, the loss of a loved one, or the loss of hope, loss follows us wherever we go and with whatever we do. It affects our judgement, our ability to trust, and our willingness to take risks.
Dr. Cook will deliver the last of his three-part lecture series on Thursday, November 10, 2016 at 6:30 p.m. at East Lawn Memorial Park, 4300 Folsom Blvd., Sacramento, and we invite you to attend. No RSVP is required. Refreshments will be served following the lecture.
A person’s name and what it represents to that person is extremely significant. If you’re like me, remembering the name of everyone you meet can be challenging.
Everyone regards his or her name as important. It is human nature, and everyone dislikes having their name mispronounced or mis-spelled. We live in such a diverse society that there are many different types of names and spellings. The best practice to remedy this situation is simply to ask how you pronounce their name and then repeat it back to them. This will help you remember their name in the future.
When a person passes away, they maintain their name and identity. When referring to that person, continue to use their name in a dignified manner – especially when writing an obituary or making a comment to an obituary. This will help keep their memory alive and be of comfort to the family.